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Modern Romance

By Aziz Ansari

Aziz explores finding love in the age of modern technology. Do you swipe right? Do you set your age setting a bit higher so you get a sugar daddy / momma since you’re broke? Do you get hammered at the bar and see if you remember their name in the morning? Known for his comedic success, Aziz brings the same energy to a thoughtful look at what love was, and what it is now. His quick wit pairs nicely with the research he and sociologist Eric Klinenberg discovered as they answer questions like “Did this guy just send me a photo of his penis?” A topic he brings into his stand up routines and Netflix show Master of None, love is a confusing and ugly topic in our day and age, but one you will no doubt relate to in Modern Romance.

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June 16, 2015

“Unlike phone calls, which bind two people in real-time conversations that require at least some shared interpretation of the situation, communication by text has no predetermined temporal sequencing and lots of room for ambiguity. Did I just use the phrase “predetermined temporal sequencing”? Fuck yeah, I did.”

Thoughts

Aziz is one of my favorite comedians. Despite some of the allegations against him, his role as Tom Haverford in Parks and Rec and high pitched stand up routines are always a sure fire way to put me in a good mood. To be honest I read Modern Romance solely because I am an Aziz fan. While this book definitely has his Tom Haverford Entertainment 720 flare and a bunch of laughs, it actually makes some good points. And at a lot of points in the book it makes you feel like a real jerk. For example, the act of ghosting is inherently such an awful thing when he compares it to prior generations who had to trust that both people would meet up at a designated location at a specific time after a phone call. Sure some people got stood up, but we leave others on read constantly (I am no better trust me). This and looking at different cultural phenomena like arranged marriages, which his parents went through, adds to the message this book tries to tell which is: yes love is weird, but with technology it become so much weirder.

Modern Romance

By Aziz Ansari

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